Teenagers between boys and girls

Kinds becoming teenagers could become one of the most difficult times in a persons life and also confusing. Everything changes about them they are becoming adults. Girl teens are known for becoming more mature younger than boys do. Another thing that comes with teenage years is the attuidue boy and girls. But who's worse? Girls can get it a little earlier than boys do. But girls can be so mean and rude right at the beginning and so moody. The boys act tough, they to be the alpha, and that could cause conflicts with friends, or family members. Is there a way for parents to make their kids have respect and not be grumpy, without getting broke? I'm sure there is a way but there is another concern. Teenagers doing drugs and trying alcohol before they're 15, and it mostly starts when they are in high school. But to me it seems like every couple years it gets worse.