How to get over someone when they never said goodbye

Relationships come to an end all the time, and the healing process is hard it takes a while for the wounds to heal. Pretty much everyone knows that and you know that but still go into a relationship. You can break up with them or they can leave you, and that’s it. You say bye and walk off in different directions. It’s the best thing to do because it would have never worked out anyway. When you get that one chance to have a good relationship and can be so happy and so in love, it’s the best thing for you, you think it can’t get any better than this. The two of you get engaged and start planning you whole future together.

What happens when that one you were going to spend the rest of your life with is gone?

You get a call and the other person on the line tells you that they have passed away. At first you think, this is a sick joke. But turns out that it is true. The next few days are a blur, your there taking to people interacting, but your really not there. Your mind is somewhere else, it at the time you two spent at the park together, the night you spent hours laying in each others arms looking at the stars, the day they said I want to spend the rest of my life with you. You make it to the funeral and you think it’s a dream, this can’t be happening. Your just so numb and can’t feel anything.

Days past and your still numb, can’t eat, don’t want to do anything. The next months go better you get out meet people and have fun you feel like the past years with that person never happened. When a year hits, you start remembering them, you remember the good times and the bad times, you realize that they wouldn’t want to be sad, they would want you to be happy and to live your life. You miss them so much but know that they are in a better place and are happy.

But still how can you go off and be happy, when the one you gave your heart to never said bye? You can move on and be happy, find another person to be with. Even though no one can take their place, you will find happiness along the way.

What do you want to be?

When everyone was little we knew what we wanted to be when we grew up. Fireman, police officer, astronaut, cowboy, artist, and president were some of things that we wanted to be. Those were the fun days when you can dream about your future and not have a concept of reality. But once that reality shows it’s self you just want things back the way they were. You graduate high school and go off to college and there they want to know what you want to be. At that time you have to start thinking seriously, you’re going to make your whole future on this one decision. It is so hard to make this choice you have to account for everything and get started one it. In the middle of it you can’t give up because if you just give up school and your future, than how can you finish anything you start? It’s one of the hardest choices of your life.

Teenagers between boys and girls

Kinds becoming teenagers could become one of the most difficult times in a persons life and also confusing. Everything changes about them they are becoming adults. Girl teens are known for becoming more mature younger than boys do. Another thing that comes with teenage years is the attuidue boy and girls. But who's worse? Girls can get it a little earlier than boys do. But girls can be so mean and rude right at the beginning and so moody. The boys act tough, they to be the alpha, and that could cause conflicts with friends, or family members. Is there a way for parents to make their kids have respect and not be grumpy, without getting broke? I'm sure there is a way but there is another concern. Teenagers doing drugs and trying alcohol before they're 15, and it mostly starts when they are in high school. But to me it seems like every couple years it gets worse.